1. Posture is Everything

Good posture instantly improves your presence in photos. Try this:

✔ Stand tall with your shoulders relaxed and back

✔ Engage your core slightly (but naturally—don’t hold your breath!)

✔ Imagine a string pulling you gently upward from the top of your head

A strong but relaxed posture creates a confident, elegant look without stiffness.

2. Find Your Best Angle

Instead of facing the camera straight on, try turning your body slightly at a 45-degree angle. This adds dimension and creates a more flattering silhouette.

🔹 For solo shots: Shift your weight to one leg and turn slightly away from the camera.

🔹 For group shots: Stagger positions instead of standing in a straight line—this makes the photo feel dynamic and natural.

If you’re unsure which side you prefer, take a couple of test selfies to see which feels best!

3. Chin Forward, Not Down

Want to avoid the dreaded double chin effect? The trick is subtle but effective:

➡️ Bring your chin slightly forward and down toward the camera

➡️ Think “elongate,” not “tilt”—you want to create a natural lift

➡️ Avoid pressing your chin down into your neck

This small movement keeps your face looking defined and bright without feeling forced.

4. What to Do With Your Hands

Your hands can make or break a pose—you want them to look relaxed, not awkward. Try:

🤍 Resting one hand on your hip for a structured, confident look

🌿 Lightly placing hands in pockets for a casual, natural feel

👶 Holding onto a loved one (perfect for family and maternity sessions!)

📖 Holding onto a prop—like a hat, blanket, or even playing with your hair

Movement makes a pose feel authentic, so don’t be afraid to shift slightly between shots.

5. Facial Expression: Relax & Breathe

A natural smile is always the best smile! To keep your expression soft and genuine:

✔ Take a deep breath and exhale through your mouth—it instantly relaxes your face

✔ Think of something that makes you laugh (or someone you love!)

✔ If a full smile feels too much, try a gentle, closed-lip smile

Don’t be afraid to change expressions throughout the shoot—sometimes the quiet, in-between moments are the most beautiful.

6. Movement is Your Best Friend

Stiff, posed photos rarely feel natural. That’s why I encourage movement in my sessions:

✨ Walk hand in hand with your partner or kids

✨ Gently sway or shift your weight instead of standing still

✨ Look away, then back at the camera for a relaxed expression

✨ Laugh, twirl, or hug—the best moments come when you forget the camera is even there

The goal is to capture real emotions, not just perfect poses.

7. Specific Poses to Try

If you’re wondering how to stand, sit, or pose naturally, here are some go-to poses:

📸 Hand on Hip: A simple pose that adds structure and confidence

📸 Looking Over the Shoulder: Creates a soft, flattering angle

📸 Leaning Against Something: Works beautifully for a relaxed, candid vibe

📸 Crossed Arms: Conveys confidence while keeping the pose intentional

📸 Playing with Hair: A natural movement that adds softness

And if you’re taking family photos, I’ll guide you into poses that feel authentic, connected, and full of love.

Bonus: What to Wear for the Most Flattering Look

Posing is key, but what you wear also plays a role in how comfortable and confident you feel.

✔ Opt for flowy, structured, or fitted clothing that flatters your shape

✔ Avoid overly baggy outfits that hide your natural posture

✔ Layering can add depth and dimension to your look

✔ Neutral, earthy tones or soft pastels work beautifully in natural light

If you’re ever unsure, I’m happy to provide personalized outfit recommendations before your session!

Final Thoughts: Posing Is About Feeling Good, Not Looking “Perfect”

The best photos aren’t about “getting the perfect pose”—they’re about feeling at ease and capturing real moments. That’s why my approach to photography is all about guiding you gently into natural, beautiful poses that feel comfortable and effortless.

So if you’re worried about what to do with your hands or how to stand, don’t stress—I’ll be there to help every step of the way!