When it comes to online dating, first impressions matter—and in today’s world, your photos often speak before you do. Whether you’re brand new to dating apps or refreshing your profile, great images can help you feel more confident and attract the kind of connection you’re looking for.

As a photographer in Santa Barbara, I’ve worked with clients who simply want to look like themselves—natural, approachable, and confident. That’s exactly what I aim to capture. If you’re ready to update your dating profile, here’s your ultimate guide to making it count.

What to Wear for Online Dating Photos

The goal is to look like the best version of you—relaxed, confident, and put together without feeling overdone. Stick to pieces you feel good in. Think: a favorite shirt, a textured sweater, or well-fitted jeans with a soft tee. Avoid loud patterns, neon colors, or anything that distracts from your face and energy.

Bring a couple of options: one casual and one a bit more polished. Accessories should complement your outfit and add a little personality without stealing the show. Jewelry, a great watch, or even a signature hat can work well. Want to bring something unique? A book you love, your guitar, or anything that helps tell your story can be a great conversation starter.

For more styling ideas, check out my post on What to Wear to a Branding Photoshoot—many of the tips translate beautifully to dating photos, too.

Best Locations for Online Dating Photos in Santa Barbara

Santa Barbara offers a mix of natural beauty and architectural charm, which means we can easily tailor your session to reflect your personality.

• Miramar Beach – Perfect for a laid-back beach stroll, barefoot in the sand with soft light and salty air.
• Lizard’s Mouth – Ideal for adventurous spirits. The trails and views of Los Padres Mountains offer a peaceful, rugged backdrop.
• Ellwood Preserve – A beautiful mix of meandering paths, tall grasses, and picnic-friendly open spaces.
• Santa Barbara Courthouse or El Presidio – Historic architecture, archways, and hidden corners full of charm.
• Downtown Cafés + Funk Zone – A stop at Dart Coffee or the garden spot across the street adds a cozy, lifestyle vibe. State Street murals and Funk Zone textures are full of personality and color.
• Godmother’s Bookstore in Summerland – For book lovers or those who want a quiet, thoughtful setting.

We’ll choose a location that reflects you, and I’ll help you feel completely comfortable—no stiff posing or forced smiles.

What Time of Day is Best?

We’ll aim to shoot during Golden Hour, which is about an hour and a half before sunset. This light is soft, golden, and incredibly flattering—it adds a natural glow and helps create the relaxed, authentic vibe that makes a photo stand out.

Exact start times change throughout the year, but I’ll guide you on timing once we select a date.

What to Bring

You really don’t need anything but yourself, but here are a few optional things to consider:

• A second outfit for variety
• Light accessories (jewelry, hat, scarf)
• Personal items that reflect your interests—book, bike, surfboard, instrument
• A water bottle and comfortable shoes for walking between locations

How to Pose Naturally and Look Great on Camera

If you’re not sure how to pose—or worry that you’ll feel awkward in front of the camera—you’re not alone. I’ll gently guide you every step of the way. My goal is to create a safe space for you to take up space, look good, and more importantly, feel good.

Bring your confidence—or let me help you find it. I want to photograph you honestly, confidently, and beautifully—exactly as you are.

For more tips, check out my post: How to Pose Naturally and Look Amazing in Photos

Ready to Feel More Confident in Your Profile?

Great photos don’t just make a good impression—they reflect your story. You deserve images that show your personality, style, and spirit in an honest and compelling way. If you’re ready to elevate your online dating profile, I’d love to help.

Contact me here to schedule your session.