Santa Barbara is the perfect place for couples looking to slow down, connect, and create lasting memories. Whether you’re planning a romantic date, celebrating an anniversary, or just looking for something fun to do together, this city offers incredible experiences for every stage of your relationship.
Here are some of my favorite couples’ activities in Santa Barbara, from relaxing strolls to adventurous outings.
1. Walk Stearns Wharf with Ice Cream in Hand
Simple but sweet—grab an ice cream from McConnell's (120 Sate St) at the base of Stearns Wharf and take a leisurely walk along the wharf. The ocean breeze, stunning views, and laid-back atmosphere make for the perfect low-key date.
2. Step Into History at Casa del Herrero
For couples who love history and architecture, a visit to Casa del Herrero in Montecito is a must. This beautifully preserved Spanish Colonial Revival estate is filled with intricate details, lush gardens, and a sense of timeless romance. It’s a perfect spot to explore together and soak in the charm of old Santa Barbara.
3. Brunch & Bike Along the Coast
Start your morning with brunch at Goat Tree, known for its delicious food and cozy atmosphere. Then, rent a surreys at Wheel Fun and cruise along Cabrillo Bike Path, taking in the coastal views as you pedal together. It’s a fun and playful way to experience Santa Barbara’s beachfront beauty.
4. Pack a Picnic & Hike Parma Park
If you love a good mix of nature and relaxation, grab a picnic basket from Bristol Farms, Gelson's, or Whole Foods and hike around Parma Park. This hidden gem offers gentle scenic trails with oak trees, rolling hills, and peaceful spots to enjoy a quiet moment together.
5. Coffee & a Hike to Seven Falls
Nothing beats a cozy morning with Dart Coffee (make sure you check out their garden across the street), followed by a scenic hike to Seven Falls. The trail offers gorgeous views, and after some time outdoors, you can reward yourselves with lunch at The Daisy.
6. Book a Couples’ Photo Session
Whether you’re dating, engaged, or celebrating an anniversary, every stage of your relationship deserves to be documented. A couples’ session is a beautiful way to capture your love in a natural, joyful way. Santa Barbara’s stunning backdrops—whether it’s the beach, gardens, or foothills—make the perfect setting for timeless photographs.
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7. Saturday Farmers Market & Brunch at La Paloma
For a relaxed weekend date, start your morning at the State Street Farmers Market on Saturday, where you can pick up fresh flowers, local produce, and artisan goods. Then, head to La Paloma Cafe for brunch and enjoy the sophisticated atmosphere.
8. Drive to Cold Spring Tavern for Tri-Tip Sandwiches
Cold Spring Tavern is a local treasure. Nestled in the mountains, this historic tavern serves up some of the best tri-tip sandwiches on the weekends. With its rustic charm and scenic drive, it’s an unforgettable experience for food lovers.
9. Sunrise Hot Springs & a Cozy Day in Summerland
For the early risers, hike to the hot springs before dawn for a quiet, rejuvenating experience. Afterward, grab breakfast at Reunion Kitchen, then spend the rest of the day in Summerland. Godmothers is a great bookstore to cozy up with a book and a coffee, and The Sacred Space is a must-visit for those who love crystals, unique gifts, and a peaceful ambiance.
Make Every Moment Count
No matter what stage your relationship is in, Santa Barbara offers so many ways to create meaningful experiences together. Whether it’s a casual ice cream stroll, a scenic hike, or a photo session to document your love, these moments deserve to be celebrated.
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