Take it from me, your local Santa Barbara Family Photographer, being prepared makes all the difference!

you may be feeling a bit apprehensive about your upcoming FAMILY PHOTO SHOOT WITH YOUR CHILDREN.

. Kids aren’t always cooperative, but don't worry these tips below will definitely help prepare you!

A tender moment captured outdoors in natural lighting with flowing dress and golden backdrop.
Family relaxing on picnic blanket under large tree during golden hour photoshoot.

1. Don't make a huge deal out of it


If you're stressed out and cranky, your kids will usually pick up on it and act accordingly. Their behavior will usually be better if you are relaxed and having fun. You may have to make some compromises to keep the peace such as letting your energetic daughter's hair stay straight instead of curling it into because she won't sit still. Focus on the big picture and don't sweat the small stuff. 

2. Make it fun


Let the kids have a couple “fun pictures” where they get to pick their own pose or better yet, let them pose the whole family. You get to keep the more serious photos while they get to keep their silly photos. This way everyone wins. If we're struggling to get the kids to sit still, turn the photo session into a game. Simon Says usually works like a charm. 

3. Be prepared


Try to ensure that your children are well-rested and have had their nap. Bringing some snacks, tissues, and wet wipes is also a great idea. If you and your daughters have long hair, bring a hair clip or bobby pins in case the wind picks up.

4. Be patient


Save your sanity by trying not to control the photo session too much. Sometimes the best photos come from kids just doing their own thing. Work with your photographer and your photos will look fantastic. 

5. Have a chat


Get your children talking to both you and the photographer about topics such as school or their favorite songs. This allows them to feel more comfortable around your photographer and will also give your photographer a chance to capture a few candid and cute expressions.

Family relaxing together on picnic blanket under large tree in natural outdoor setting at sunset.
A family gathering under a majestic oak tree on a picnic blanket during golden hour.
Family cuddling on white blanket under sprawling tree branches in outdoor setting.
Candid family photo session with everyone laughing together on blanket under tree.
Playful family moment captured under large tree with children in matching outfits.
Heartwarming outdoor portrait under tree branch with warm sunlight filtering through.
Sweet mother-child moment captured outdoors in soft natural lighting.
Mother holds baby in floral dress while sharing tender moment under tree.
Mother in floral dress holds baby in white knit outfit against nature backdrop.
Joyful mother lifting baby in white outfit against sunlit outdoor setting.
Parents playing with children outdoors, lifting them up against sunny natural backdrop.
Family enjoying a sunny outdoor photoshoot among large rocks and trees on a golden afternoon.
Family laying on white blanket having playful moments together in natural outdoor setting.
Candid family moment captured on white blanket during outdoor photoshoot in golden field.
Intimate family portrait with everyone laying together on white blanket in natural setting.